Saturday 18 February 2012

What every man wants to hear.


Every man wants to hear he made the right choice, having you. He wants to hear that he picked the best for himself, and never make him stop believing that. He wants to hear that you are the most beautiful, even if you are not, somehow his friends should tell him that you are the most beautiful. The world must believe she is beautiful, and when he is not convinced that you are beautiful, the world will tell him.

"dude, that mama of yours... Wow"

Every man wants to hear that you didn't go out without him, it is a stroke on everyone's ego when someone loves you so much they will only go out with you. Unless of course the man you are with sees you as a play thing, and you see him as the same. Playing is not as bad, games between sheets and all.

No man wants to hear stories about her lady. Wild at night without him. No man wants to hear that...

"yesterday I met your chic at the club, she is wild, oh my she is wild too bad you weren't there..."

"ah, I know."

Your man would say 'ahh i know' in front of his boys, but that's in front of his boys, cause it's accepted to make fun of your boys even though you are friends. It's the manly thing to do, you put on a brave face then go home and die. Then blow everything out of proportion.

No man wants to hear stories about her lady, that she knows everyone and is friendly with everyone. Everyone wants to hear that everyone tries to be friendly with her but she is friendly with a few. Cause that's how it is, men chase, women accept. Women are wanted men want.

No man wants to see photos of her girl with her ex's. It messes up with his head, men want to hear they are the only one, and that they are first at everything. Men want women that are pure, that's why when men are surrounded by women they are appealing, but when women are surrounded by too many men they are sluts.

But that's a small price to pay, cause pick up lines are sent to women, and not men. We are different, and men chase women select.

Men claim they want to know a woman's history, the numbers and what not. But sometimes that can destroy a man, but it all depends, on whether the man will know. And men will question, when somehow a chic he is with boards matatus for free, and as much as she ignores the conductor, he is persistent in chatting her up like she wasn't a stranger.

Men will bang almost everyone, but rarely will men say this is my girl while it is common knowledge she has been around, cause at the end men need to be cared for, probably that's why they can't cook just right, but we can fight just right.

Men want one thing, women want everything, so men get everything, so that they can get one thing, and when a man wants that one thing every time, even though he doesn't want to accept it's love, most times it is. But men aren't sissy, they can't keep saying the word love all the time, cause men fight, and defend their territory, and they provide, meet the cruel world and fend for themselves and the ones they love.

Just like women don't want to think that her man only wants one thing, men don't like to think women want one thing. Women may make men feel like the only thing they are after is an open wallet, even though that's not what is true. But you know, we make decisions on perceptions. So if it seems that you are after a wallet, then expect him to make a decision about you based on that assumptions. You do make decisions on the assumptions that he is around you for one thing. As much as things are real, make sure he has the right perception of you.

Men want to hear a girl is helpless over them, and that she would let him do anything cause it's him.

Women and men are different, like everyone is different from everyone else. But in the end it's always who you want to be with.