You go out on a date. It doesn’t work out. Next weekend, you meet another mama. Again, it doesn’t work out. It just seems like nothing is working out. Life’s a bitch huh! Then, for a long period of time, you don’t meet anyone. You begin to get anxious and nervous: I must have lost my mojo right?
All you can think about is how badly you need and want a relationship.
You can never badly need and want a relationship. Sign it in your head as boolshit.
Then — finally — you a mama! And it feels promising. You’re dating, you’re going out, you’re sleeping together. She’s meeting your friends. The problem is, she’s not right for you. You know it. She complains too much. about everything. She’s not clean – she doesn’t clean her sheets pretty often. Her lady parts don’t smell very fresh. Kinda like fish! ~ Yeah! fish! And then again, she complains too fuckin much. over everything. But still you fall for her because you’ve finally found someone to share your time with. You dot think its a big deal if you guys parted ways, cuz you don’t really -really like her, but you still feel like hanging on. You’re going steady, starting to form a real relationship, but it feels like a bit of a struggle. Like you have to try really hard to like her. and when you promise her shit you have to swallow hard. Cuz her lifestyle is not like yours. Cuz she is too damn negative. Cuz she just makes you miserable. You know she likes you, but you don’t really like her the same way that she likes you. she thinks you do. she actually thinks that you like her even more than you really do – - and you even do things to make her feel like this, or you are just being yourself, but the feeling is not mutual.
But the sex is good! You are in love with the way she has multiple orgasms and that just makes you feel like a man!
Then the inevitable happens. Once again, a woman goes and breaks your heart. not as damaging as the first love – - not even nearing, but still, breaking a heart is breaking a heart. Its not a big deal, but still you feel bad. you know its for the better, but still, you have that ka-thing that makes you feel bad.
Revenge Dating
So what do you do now? You swallow that boolshit. Instead, you now want revenge on your girlfriend — well, ex-girlfriend. You want revenge on every woman who’s ever faulted you, every woman who has ever caused you any pain and misery. Any woman who has ever hurt you in the past is now going to get payback through all the women out there whom you haven’t met yet.
you start having multiple sex with several chics at the same time – with protection! hehehehe!
You’re on a mission to get back at the women who have hurt you. You tell yourself that you’re just going to go out and sleep with them, use them, abuse them, and have your way with them. You’re going to get even with all the women who have never called you back, all the women who rejected you in a bar, and, most of all, your last girlfriend, who hurt you and broke your heart.
How does this sound to you?
To me it sounds pretty stupid.
Have you ever had these feelings?
Does it sound healthy, does it sound sane, does it sound right?
Getting revenge on new people for what you went through in the past is ridiculous. The reason why you got hurt in the first place is because you weren’t aware of the woman you were with.You were dating based out of need. And it was your fault. especially that last one. Because you let it happen to you. and with the girl of your dreams. Well. It happened. God knows why it happened.
Whenever this happens, you’re going to be blind to that person’s true colors. You’re likely to find somebody who will take advantage of you. Why? Because they have the upper hand and you don’t. You’ll tolerate anything to keep those mamaz in your life... (continue on link) http://thebookofchrysostom.wordpress.com/page/5/
